Thanks for all the links and advice about spaying. I am feeling a lot better about the situation. Made the appointment for next Tuesday... I have to bring her in between 7:30 and 8 am and will pick her up sometime after 3. They want to keep and eye on her after the surgery to make sure she comes out of the haze okay. I like that.

Oh, and other good news: the rabbit has finally decided "Yes! i like carrots!". That's the first non-pellet thing she hasn't turned her nose up at. A minor step, but a step nonetheless.